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1 Year...

Post by MattMan » Fri Jun 16, 2006 1:48 am

At about 12:30-1pm today it was the one year anniversary of the car accident I was in... I miss my girlfriend really badly, today more than anything :'(

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Post by Barbies are Evil » Sat Jun 17, 2006 3:30 pm

look at it this way.......theres only one one year mark........and obviously you made it through........you can make it through.........
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Post by Beautiful » Sat Jun 17, 2006 5:19 pm

i'm sorry hun :[

but like she said, you got to the one year mark. && shes in a better place now :hug:
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Post by rockerchick » Wed Jul 12, 2006 4:17 pm

OMG! June 15?? June 16 was the one year anniversary of my good friend, Brittany's death. She had cancer though. I'm so sorry for your loss, and i know that it doesn't help when people say "at least they're in a better place." I don't know about you but i've hated the number 16 ever since. Stay strong man...maybe your gf and Brit are keeping each other company.
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Post by turtbub » Mon Jul 24, 2006 11:00 pm

I'm so sorry.



How are you doing? Probably a stupid question, but I'm asking anyway. Hanging in there? Feel free to vent to me if you need.



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Post by Clubber20_06 » Sat Aug 12, 2006 1:03 pm

I am so sorry about your loss. I know what you feel right now, July 25th would have been my nanas birthday, i miss her loads, but i am sure she is in a better place, along with your girlfriend.

You should go do something that you both enjoyed, it might cheer you up a littl bit. Sorry
Now I still wonder why did you say goodbye

You let me stand here all alone

The pain inside my heart, it's tearing me apart

Cause now I stand here on my own



But now I cry myself to sleep

Only you are what I need

We can make it if we try

I am nowhere without you

I don't know what I should do

Cause my tears will never dry

And I still wonder why



I hope that you will see how much you mean to me

I don't understand why you have gone

The pain inside my heart, it's tearing me apart

Cause now I stand here on my own

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Re: 1 Year...

Post by andi » Wed Aug 16, 2006 9:17 am

Hey, I know how you feel. The three year anniversary of my brother's death just passed, and even though it's been three years, it doesn't necessarily make that day any easier. That whole "you made it through the first year thing" is not completely true, at least not for me, because after the 1 yr anniversary of my brother's death passed, i felt like i should start to "get over" or be able to "move on" easier. I want to tell you that everyone takes a different amount of time to deal with stuff and however long it takes you to cope with this loss, is normal. Don't let anyone rush you or tell you how you should feel. The other thing that i can tell you for sure, is that it does and it will get easier. I still think about my brother every single day, and some days are harder than others. Most of the time i'm okay, but sometimes i still break down and cry like he just died. The hardest deaths to get over are the sudden ones.
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