Ummm
Moderator: Soul Moderators
- Beautiful
- Veteran
- Posts: 7249
- Joined: Tue Feb 03, 2004 6:34 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
Aww hunny i'm sooo sorry .
Are you going to go to her funeral??
I never met my grandma on my dads side. :-/
Are you going to go to her funeral??
I never met my grandma on my dads side. :-/
Little Miss F*cker,
Don't Move An Inch
I looked at myself
So many things I hate in me
So many things are so hard to believe
I can hear the whole world calling me
Used to be all that i wanted
You to see all that i you to be
does anyone care
Add me.
myspace
*Jamie*
Travis Michael <3.
Born Feb 9th, 2007
He has owns heart.
Don't Move An Inch
I looked at myself
So many things I hate in me
So many things are so hard to believe
I can hear the whole world calling me
Used to be all that i wanted
You to see all that i you to be
does anyone care
Add me.
myspace
*Jamie*
Travis Michael <3.
Born Feb 9th, 2007
He has owns heart.
- sbloemeke
- Veteran
- Posts: 1132
- Joined: Sat Nov 05, 2005 5:49 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
You want to help your girlfriend through this time, so you are posting for help to help her, maybe? I don't know. However, I think you should go to the funeral. It is supportive of your girlfriend, and will help your relationship with her.
Oh, and Dave, long time no see. Are you still going to TH?
-Steven
Oh, and Dave, long time no see. Are you still going to TH?
-Steven
- Lena
- Veteran
- Posts: 8551
- Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2004 12:03 pm
Re: Ummm
Death affects us in all sorts of ways - it doesn't matter if you didn't know the person who died. If you need support, for whatever reason, feel free to post and ask for it.
Take care,
Lena.
Take care,
Lena.
Woman can not live on tea or chocolate alone.... but she can give it a damn good try.
- Kit
- Veteran
- Posts: 2494
- Joined: Mon Jan 05, 2004 1:26 am
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
Only go to the funeral if your girlfriend asks you or if you ask her and it's ok. Other wise - it can be....disrespectful(?) because you aren't family and that is family time. I don't know. I do with you luck and I'm sorry for your loss.
Sammi
Sammi
Email me If you ever need someone to talk to and I'm not online, drop me an E-mail. I'll get it on my phone!
Myspace Want to know more about me? Here's my myspace. You can see pictures of my family, and keep up with my life here.
I LOVE my Son Ethan who is 10 months old and my wonderful husband who is signing up for the Army!
Myspace Want to know more about me? Here's my myspace. You can see pictures of my family, and keep up with my life here.
I LOVE my Son Ethan who is 10 months old and my wonderful husband who is signing up for the Army!
- Toy Soldier
- Veteran
- Posts: 3903
- Joined: Mon Sep 29, 2003 6:38 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
It sounds like you are trying to be supportive for your girlf which is nice. Have you asked her if she wants you to go to the funeral with her? You know, to support her. Shes going to need support, especially around a difficult time like this. So offer a shoulder to cry on if she needs to and be there to listen to her, etc.
~*~Ruth~*~
~*~Ruth~*~
Ruth I was forgotten, I won't be forgotten, never again... says:
lol, dont think they have tigers on farmsthough :/
Angel Breaks says:
i was thinkin that but fuck it macdonald was progressive he knew tigers were the future
- Dave_19
- Loyal
- Posts: 601
- Joined: Fri Jan 21, 2005 3:46 am
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
Originally posted by sbloemeke@Dec 1 2005, 04:01 PM
Are you still going to TH?
-Steven
[right][/right]
i got banned, for being a drunk idiot. i cant even see the posts anymore.
:. my crazy life
<span style="color:teal"|B|e|e|r| my Anti-Drug
<span style="color:teal"|B|e|e|r| my Anti-Drug
- Barbies are Evil
- Veteran
- Posts: 4648
- Joined: Sun Dec 15, 2002 7:52 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
i'd go to the funeral anyway. I think she'll need you there, wether she knows it now or not.
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Meredith Brooks-Bitch
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Meredith Brooks-Bitch
- sbloemeke
- Veteran
- Posts: 1132
- Joined: Sat Nov 05, 2005 5:49 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
If you know it or not, if you bring up the subject with her, she will appreciate it a lot. She's grieving, and it will make her sad, but it will be appreciated. If you ask when's the funeral, she'll see you really care.
Everyone is getting banned there sooner or later... Too much power in corrupt hands. They banned me for being DID, which means I have 2 personalities going on at the same time. I registered as the feminine one, so they saw it as a big hoax and banned me...i got banned, for being a drunk idiot. i cant even see the posts anymore.
- Dave_19
- Loyal
- Posts: 601
- Joined: Fri Jan 21, 2005 3:46 am
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
i was drunk and depressed in the chat room and they banned me from chat then i got angry and said something about it and they put me on a bann where i can write but no one can see my posts. then i made a post about well since no one can see what i post and i put some pictures of suicidal bears and she banned me for good. fuck i hate helen
anyways thx for the posts i will ask her about the funeral tomorrow. wish me luck.
anyways thx for the posts i will ask her about the funeral tomorrow. wish me luck.
:. my crazy life
<span style="color:teal"|B|e|e|r| my Anti-Drug
<span style="color:teal"|B|e|e|r| my Anti-Drug
- sbloemeke
- Veteran
- Posts: 1132
- Joined: Sat Nov 05, 2005 5:49 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
Good luck! She will appreciate it, and probably for years. I still appreciate what my friend did back when my Grandfather died on my birthday... And your girlfriend will do the same thing. It shows support and concern.
PS: I really don't think anyone really likes her. Except for her blind slaves who haven't yet met the wrath. Heck, the admins there are liars. They said they'd unban me by the end of the day back in early September, and I still have my IP banned... Oh well.
PS: I really don't think anyone really likes her. Except for her blind slaves who haven't yet met the wrath. Heck, the admins there are liars. They said they'd unban me by the end of the day back in early September, and I still have my IP banned... Oh well.
- Barbies are Evil
- Veteran
- Posts: 4648
- Joined: Sun Dec 15, 2002 7:52 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
guys.......so not the place for TH bashing.....so not appropriate
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Meredith Brooks-Bitch
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Meredith Brooks-Bitch
- Dave_19
- Loyal
- Posts: 601
- Joined: Fri Jan 21, 2005 3:46 am
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
i got her a card today and she gave me a hug and said thanks. i asked about teh funeral and she said that her dad wanted it just to be a small family thing but she could ask, but i told her it' was ok and she didnt; have to worry about it.
:. my crazy life
<span style="color:teal"|B|e|e|r| my Anti-Drug
<span style="color:teal"|B|e|e|r| my Anti-Drug
- Barbies are Evil
- Veteran
- Posts: 4648
- Joined: Sun Dec 15, 2002 7:52 pm
- Contact:
Re: Ummm
ok, that's cool........just be there for her.......that's all I have to say because from my experience that's what helps the most.
TJ[10:13 PM]: no not really..... it's all so.... like wow..... screw steps, you took a fuckin jet pack and strapped it on yourself and rocketed your way forward (thats my big bro)
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Meredith Brooks-Bitch
And I'm going to extremes
Tomorrow I will change
And today won't mean a thing
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Meredith Brooks-Bitch