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I gave my boyfriend head at the movies the other day and i feel horrible, he wants to have sex, and i mean y not? well, first, i m a virgin, and second, i already have my period, there is a chance i could get pregnant, we have been dating 4 six months, but im scared and unsure????
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here is my advice: read your post out loud. you obviously dont want to have sex with him. tell him that!
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ok first of all, just because you gave him head does NOT mean you should just have sex. just because he wants to have sex, does not mean you have to be willing to have sex too. you sound very unsure and sound like you dont really even want to have sex with this guy. and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you not wanting to have sex now. tell him youre not ready. give yourself some time. and if he really cares about you, hell understand and will be willing to wait until youre ready to take that next step. but dont let anyone pressure you into thinking you should be willing to have sex. its a big decision and in my personal opinion, i dont think it should be taken lightly. good luck! :D
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heh, jess is right. if your not totally 100% sure you want to have sex, or you feel comfortable with it, DONT DO IT. it doesnt matter how long you've been dating, it matters how YOU feel. and if this guy is gonna get pissed because you wont have sex with him, he's so not worth your time. :P good luck, pm me anytime.
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Giving a guy head doesn't obligate you to have sex with him. Don't have sex with him unless you really want too and are ready. It seems that your not ready to have sex. Don't let him control your thoughts and actions. Its your life and you are allowed to say no to him. But if you decide to have sex with him, make sure that you use protection, like a condom.
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I'm gonna stop going the movies..



on a side note, if you were ready - you sure as hell wouldn't be asking us.
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Originally posted by DunOwuTiwaNt+Jul 13 2003, 12:56 PM--<table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'<tr<tdQUOTE (DunOwuTiwaNt @ Jul 13 2003, 12:56 PM)</td</tr<tr<td id='QUOTE'<!--QuoteBegin-fruitloop@Jul 13 2003, 03:50 AM

I'm gonna stop going the movies..



um.. why.. :huh:[/b][/quote]



Read her first post.
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