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Just wondering. This doesn't include the "pull out" method either. I mean actual protection- condoms, birth control, etc.



Also, if you do use protection... what kind?
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I am female and yes. I am on the pill and when I had sex I used condoms. Some of my friends don't though. :(
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I'm a female, and I use condoms and i'm on the pill right now, too. Ohh... I think once I didn't use a condom. woops.
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im a female and ya always make my b/f use condoms
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It generally is a good thing to use protection, there really isnt any excuse anymore.
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Yes. Always. The last thing I want right now is a baby.
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I am a virgin but w/o a doubt i would use protection...



and it would be condoms...

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Hahaha, I'm such a terrible person.



I've never used protection and I never will.



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Im on the shot and i use condoms sometimes... we dont worry as much because im on the shot but we try and remember... but he always tries to pull out when he isnt wearing one
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Yes, there is NO EXCUSE not to. Even when your under age, there is Planned parenthood, and that place is WONDERFUL!
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well ive never had sex..but when i do ill use protection. umm the few times i almost had sex the guy had a condom..does that count?
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Yes. I'm on Depo Provera, the shot.
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I sorta scare myself. I don't really want to use a condom... I'm scared it'll be just a big embarassment and a big inconvienence. I'm on the pill though, and I know my boyfriend has never been with anyone. SO.. yea... I don't know. :(
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why would u be scared to use condoms? it's barely there and it's not inconvenient at all, and even if it is a little would u rather chance it and get pregnant or get an STD? there's no reason ( exept maybe for u're allergic) why u shouldnt use condoms and protect urself
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Jesykah- you've got to get over your 'fear' of condoms sometime. If you integrate putting on the condom into your foreplay routine (perhaps putting it on with your mouth- you could always practice on a banana- lol) then it won't be so bad, and most blokes would find that really sexy.



And, alot of blokes will SAY that they have no STD's, and are clean, but you can never be sure, and its always better to be safe than sorry, so you should always use a condom!
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I'm just scared it'll be awkward because neither of us will know HOW to put it on or anything. It'll be both of our first times...I don't know. I wanna be safe, though. Even though he hasn't been with anyone else, I'd rather be safe.
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Jesykah, I found a load of sites for you which give you clear instructions of how to put on a condom. You've got to learn sometime, and you might as well learn now, when you're both new to it. Once you've done it once, you'll realise how easy it is. There's nothing to be afraid of. EVERYONE had to be new to it at one time!



Seriously, if you're nervous, practice putting it on a banana, and you'll see theres nothing to be worried of!



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Thanks so much! :)
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im a female...



and ive only used protection once...



i dont like it...it feels like im having sex with a rubber doll.



but i do believe im going to go up to the clinic now so i



dont go through the pregnancy thing again.
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