Dependence

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Dependence

Post by gloomyluv » Fri Apr 28, 2006 6:55 pm

I've come to the realization that i'm too dependent upon my friends (which is probably why they ignore me).

I already felt alone, but i feel that i need to isolate myself in order to become independent. I'm not exactly sure what i should do.

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Post by Nikki » Mon May 01, 2006 9:34 am

try spending more time on your own, doing stuff you like to do. Meet new people. Just do stuff you don't do every day with your friends.
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Re: Dependence

Post by sanctioned_madness » Sat May 06, 2006 1:45 am

this might sound weird, but you might want to try broadening your circle of friends. if you have one or two close friends, that's super-awesome and you should stick with them, but you might want to try inviting a couple extra people next time you go out. maybe take the initiative and suggest something you've really been wanting to do that you feel comfortable sharing with a few "extra" people. this way you could be more independent by choosing what you want to do, still be with your friends, but also not be "clingy" because you'll have a couple more people there with you.



or you could talk to your friends and see if they feel like they need a little space and go from there.



just a suggestion. i'm sure you can work it out. =)



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Re: Dependence

Post by love_not_war » Mon May 08, 2006 6:58 am

i way agree with the chick abouve me... im like that too.. way to dependent on my friends.. and it makes me totally sad cuz like i dont have that many.. and the ones i do ugh.. its kinda bullshit.. i mean. i love em.. but they hardly call me or anything. but im not here to bitch about me.. but yeah.. you shouldent isolate yourself from people.. to me that just makes stuff worse.. but find some extra friends.. and like go somewhere very social with a couple friends, but have them introduce you do some other people there.. and go back in forth between everyone.. i shouldent be talking very loud tho.. i havent solved my dependancy problem.. haha. sorries! wish you luck tho!
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