Not One To Usually Say "why Me"

[Chica9]

I'm not one to usually ask "why me" or wish somthing on someone else. But something huge has happened in my life that makes me want to scream out "why me??" My dad passed away Aug 15th 2005. It was sudden and I wasn't ready. I wouldn't wish the pain I feel on anyone, because thats not fair. But I have to ask myself, why me? Why my family? Everyone wants to tell me it was his time, and that god was ready for him. I WASN'T ready for him to leave!!! It isn't fair, he was my dad, my protecter, not anyone elses, so why did someone else get to decied it was time for him to leave? There are so many wonderful things he'll miss out on. My senior prom, my graduation from high school, my wedding! Its not fair! I know that life will move on, but I don't want it to, if he can't be here to move with us. ~I want to scream out his name for the world to hear, but then I'd have to admit that he's gone.~

[Wheretogo]

hey, i know its not easy.... this sucks like hell. losing someone, espcially a parent, takes time to get over, and to be honest you will never really get over it... you just kinda accept hes gone, and learn to deal with it in a different way. It has taken me 3 years to fully come to terms with my best friends death, and she was hit by a car. Its gonna be hard, and long, but there will be people here to talk, and you should get into a support group as soon as you think your ready. This is somthing you deal with at your own pace



*hugs* im soooo sorry you have to go through this, im here if you ever need me

[sarahbeara]

im so sorry hun. thats horrible what happened. to be honest, i have never lost someone close to me, so i will admit that i dont truly understand what youre goin through. but just know that you need to take your time with this. its ok to be sad, adn maybe going to a therapist would be helpful? i think i would find it nice to talk to someone in your situation...aw hun, im so sorry. know that there are many people here for you. by joininh HT you joined a huge family, we all want to help. im so sorry for your loss

luv and luck~sarah

[5a5]

im sorry this happened and ure right by asking why me, i've had people very very close to me pass away and i wondered why the hell me, why my family, why other people can be happy and stuff and i have to go through this much shit, i dont know the answer to this question and i agree it's competely not fair, but that's the way life is, u can either sit home and feel sorry for uself, or try and preserve ur dad's memory in u, by living and by having the most wonderful life u can have, the life he'd want for u, think about it