Yes, I have met those people who just want to use me. Being the nice guy I am I let them keep doing it. And usually its the ladies who are always wanting something from me. No offense...
These people are just wandering around in their own little world that they like to call paradise. On the outside, they look cool and fun, but on the inside they are scrambling around trying to find their true self. So, to cure this scrambling, they try to act like someone cool or w/e. To give them a character so they don't have to find their own. Basically, they look at someone and say "Ok, I gotta act like him/her and dress like him/her or I won't be accepted." Consequently, they fall into that hole and get to the point that thats all they know how to do. Act like other people. Plus, they don't give other people a chance b/c they don't look like them or don't dress the way they do. Thus, they avoid them in fear of getting a bad rep and people thinking they are a skank or w/e. Then, on top of that, they call everyone else the lost one. That they have no idea whats going on and need a reality check.
Kinda sounds like a cult to me lol
"Death to those who not join our cool people cult!"
Maybe Im just hating...but I just wanted to rant about that.

"Others who broke my heart. They were like northern stars, pointing me on my way into your loving arms. This much I know is true, that God blessed the broken road that led me straight to you."
Lying close to you feelin' your heart beatin. And Im wonderin' what you're dreamin. Wonderin' if its me your seeing. Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together. I just wanna stay with you in this moment forever!
"Take time with a wounded hand cause it likes to heal"
-Nirvana