why me? why cant my life be perfect?
i could just say "life is what you make of it" and leave it at that but trouthfully i dont want to say that and you probably dont want to hear it either.
remember the wallgreens commercial "we live no where near perfect....." i hate that commercial. having a 'perfect' life has nothing to do with having all the luxuries you can think of, also unlike Robert A Henlien's "the richest person is the one with the most friends" that is also not true, it is the one who makes the most of what they are delt. i know you are thinking "ya right" but no matter how bad you have it in the long run its not that bad. there is someone that used to go to my school that i will never forget, she was from a war torn country and her whole family was killed in front of her and then brought to canada (you would think that was horrible) it was, but she still managed to keep a smile and look at the good in her life. because when one spends thier whole life looking back at thier past they miss the future. life is too short for pitty and regret there is always good in your life no matter what the situation.
I will also remember the time that me and my dad were comming back from a car show, and our car broke down in the middle of the rain with no where to go and someone said "look at the bright side" "WHAT FUCKING BRIGHT SIDE?!" even in our situation, it could have been worse.
A technique you can do is to list everything that went good in your day. everythnig from "my pencil didnt break during my test" to "i passed my drivers test" not just things in school, but everything throughout the day.