Shhhh! I Haven't Told Anyone!

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<3Music<3
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Shhhh! I Haven't Told Anyone!

Post by <3Music<3 » Mon Oct 31, 2011 11:14 am

I have a crush on this guy... (I know exciting right?) I am 13 and so is he. I have known him for three years. The first year was kind of "Hey he's a nice guy!" and we became friends. The second year it was like "Whoa! He looks... different... " Then this year I walk in the door of the brand new school and find out that he is in 5 out of 7 of my classes! "OMG! He is sooo cute!"



There are three problems here...



1. I am normally shy... and this doesn't help my self esteem. <img src='http://www.helpingteens.org/groups/publ ... atdrop.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':sweatdrop:' />



2. I don't know how to approach him! I think I'm just his friend... am I or does he like me too? <img src='http://www.helpingteens.org/groups/publ ... stling.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':whistling:' />



3. Then the most complicated... my friend always says "I love you!" when she see's him. I think she's just picking on him because she does that to everyone. So one day we had a sub for third hour. My friend walks in and says "I love you with all of my heart!" and the sub says (and completely ruins my life) "Are you two future husband and wife?" and the class burst out laughing! The next day some kids make a paper dress and tux and married them! Now I think my friend actually likes him! I mean It's one thing to have a crush on someone and so does your friend but to have a crush on someone's husband?! I don't even know if they're dating or not! Help me please!!!

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Re: Shhhh! I Haven't Told Anyone!

Post by <3Music<3 » Mon Oct 31, 2011 11:45 pm

Ya I knew it was a lost cause... :,(

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Re: Shhhh! I Haven't Told Anyone!

Post by Lena » Thu Nov 10, 2011 4:02 pm

Nope, not a lost cause. Simply a rather slow forum.... <img src='http://www.helpingteens.org/groups/publ ... #>/sad.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':(' />



How is the situation now?



I don't think it matters what others think, it matters what you (and he) think. How does he behave around you?



Take care,



Lena
Woman can not live on tea or chocolate alone.... but she can give it a damn good try.

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