In this past year, I realized A LOT of couples are breaking up because one of them cheated on the other.
Is it just me or does it seem like more and more people are cheating these days?
Personally, I'd never be able to do it. It just doesn't make sense to me. Why not stay single instead of cheating? That way you don't hurt anyone AND you can hook-up with whoever you'd like.
So yeah, why do people cheat? And why don't they just stay single?
Why do SO any people cheat??
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Re: Why do SO any people cheat??
coz what's wrong is more exciting sometimes? I don't justify cheaters but you know the expression "feels good to be bad", it works sometimes. At that moment you don't think about the person you hurt, you only think about the excitement of doing something 'bad'
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Re: Why do SO any people cheat??
its having your cake and eating it too
you want the stability of a relationship
but the fun of other people
you want the stability of a relationship
but the fun of other people
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Re: Why do SO any people cheat??
I just think that people aren't taking relationships seriously enough these days...
It's mostly people who aren't happy in their relationships, or are going through a rough spot in the relationship, and accidentally "fall into bed" with someone else. Sometimes, people don't even mean to, it just happens because the situation presents itself.
Maybe?
It's mostly people who aren't happy in their relationships, or are going through a rough spot in the relationship, and accidentally "fall into bed" with someone else. Sometimes, people don't even mean to, it just happens because the situation presents itself.
Maybe?
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Re: Why do SO any people cheat??
I think they cheat because they get bored, they miss the spark from the beginning of a relationship and they want the excitement of doing what they shouldn't be doing. People become pathological liars for similar reasons, they love the rush of what if they find out?
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Re: Why do SO any people cheat??
I cheated because I have this innate desire to run away from every relationship I've been in or come close to being in.
I cheated and I wish I felt bad. It's not that they did anything wrong. It was just someone else I could have.
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I cheated and I wish I felt bad. It's not that they did anything wrong. It was just someone else I could have.
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