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I think the red notices there is on certain forums are good things.. But the ED forum can be just as triggering as Self-Harm and Depression, so I think there should a warning on the ED forum too.. :) just trying to help you out..
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Well, if we do that, we need "Disorders" to be warned too, not just "Eating Disorders."
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Why would you also need it in disorders, I dont think that disorders is a triggering forum?
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erm.. sorry then. i don't know why you would need it in disorders too.. but w/e.. i was just thinking that if you were saying it was triggering then why not put it on something else just as triggering as the other ones you've got on there
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Originally posted by Fishhead@Dec 6 2004, 11:55 AM

erm.. sorry then. i don't know why you would need it in disorders too.. but w/e.. i was just thinking that if you were saying it was triggering then why not put it on something else just as triggering as the other ones you've got on there

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how is disorders triggering?
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Umm the way I see it, Eating Disorders tend to be "learned" disorders that can be triggered by many things.



On the other hand disorders in general do not usually seem to be "learned", are usually there from birth and I am unsure about any disorders that are easily triggered or able to be triggered at all.



I may have a total misconception here, and if so please let me know, but I think thats what fishhead is refering to.



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yea.. Thanks for that.. I didn't know how to say what I meant..
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hell while were at it why dont you just shut the gates and lock the whole forum from guest viewing.
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skye, why do you have to also lock disorders if you lock the ED forum? im just curious as it doesnt make sense to me. the disorders forum isnt triggering at all.
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How is Eating Disorders triggering? You guys are abusing this idea. Only five forums on these forums are truely triggering:



Suicide, Self-Harm, Depression, Why Me, Rape/Abuse



Eatring Disorders is not triggering. Stop trying to lock down the entire forum. Jeez.
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Originally posted by The Black Hat@Dec 8 2004, 04:47 PM

How is Eating Disorders triggering? You guys are abusing this idea. Only five forums on these forums are truely triggering:



Suicide, Self-Harm, Depression, Why Me, Rape/Abuse



Eatring Disorders is not triggering. Stop trying to lock down the entire forum. Jeez.

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excuse me, it was your idea to lock down this forum. the only you suggested it is because you saw another forum that does it and you thought "oh wow, helpingteens should follow what everyother site does instead of being itself." i am totally agianst locking this forum from people, it greatly handicaps this site from helping people who dont want to become members.
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well 1) i dont think they should be banned from being viewed i believe there should be a warning but that they should NOT be banned

2) i personally have trouble going into the ED forum, i go in there i feel fat, stupid and it makes me never want to eat again sometimes unless i have a question and am recieving help thats the only time i DONT feel that way

3) i agree with what fizz said about the whole "learned" thing



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Originally posted by The Black Hat@Dec 8 2004, 01:47 PM

How is Eating Disorders triggering? You guys are abusing this idea. Only five forums on these forums are truely triggering:



Suicide, Self-Harm, Depression, Why Me, Rape/Abuse



Eatring Disorders is not triggering. Stop trying to lock down the entire forum. Jeez.

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Because you've had an eating disorder? Obviously not or you would know that numbers trigger, people saying they're fat and weigh 99 pounds trigger. They trigger people to want to be skinnier.



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I think some of the stuff people say in the Eating Disorder fourm is triggering. If someone were to want to search on google for help on an getting over an eating disorder and it were to bring up someone said in that fourm they could decided that they don't want to get over it anymore. Getting over an eating disorder is really hard for a lot of people just like not cutting is. A lot of people stop eating because they think they are helping themselves just like some who cut think they are helping themselves when really they both are just hurting themselves.
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That you care for me but that you're just not in love

Immediately I pretended to be feeling similarly

And led you to believe I was O.K.

To just walk away from the one thing

That's unyielding and sacred to me

Well I guess I'm trying to be nonchalant about it

And I'm going to extremes to prove I'm fine without you

But in reality I'm slowly losing my my mind

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Friends ask me how I feel and I lie convincingly

'Cause I don't want to reveal the fact that I'm suffering

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And turn down all the lights and then break down and cry

So what do you do when somebody you're devoted to

Suddenly just stops loving you and it seems they haven't got a clue

Of the pain that rejection is putting you through

Do you cling to your pride and sing "I will survive"

Do you lash out and say "How dare you leave this way"

Do you hold on in vain as they just slip away
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